Thanks to the whole Shivo mess, Sarah and I had a discussion about what we want. Eventually this will be written down in a living will.
For the record, if I cannot answer for myself, what my wife says goes. Not my parents, not anyone else, especially not the members of the circus known as the US Congress. She is in the best position to know what I want, and I trust her to rationally make the right decision.
I can’t imagine her making a decision my parents didn’t back her up on. However, if she does end up getting into a pissing contest with my parents, like the story that has our national media attention, she wins. It is her call.